soft domestic violence 家庭软暴力

With the development of city civilization, domestic violence  seems already went out of our sight. While we are celebrating that kids are not getting hurt in domestic violence , there is damage way appears. This kind of way will not hurt child physically, but spiritual. We call that soft violence, which means hurting people with words.

I can see that most parents still not understand what does soft violence means, they usually think that beating kids is violence, but soft violence, they have no idea. For instance, most parents would say the word to kids like “You have to study hard, or you will not find a good job. And if you don’t have a good job, how could you suppose to wait on and support us when we are getting old?” does it sound familiar to you? The words like that will cause serious psychological burden to young little kids, and they would study every hard and ignore their health, while they are in the high stress to worry about they will not find a good job, and have no ability to support their old parents, that would become a black sheep.

In addition, “you classmate is better than you in math or English, why would you do an excellent job just like them?” this kind of word will hurt kid’s esteem deeply. They might think that they are never good enough for their parents, and it will probably lead to depressive disorder.

Therefore, when parents teach children, they should not only use physical violence but also not soft violence, because the damage of both violence is equal. (大学英语作文 )





我能看到大部分父母都不知道软暴力是什么意思,他们通常认为打孩子才是暴利,但是软暴力,还真不知道是什么。例如,许多父母会对孩子说这样的话 “你要努力学习,不然你就会找不到好工作。如果你找不到好工作,那在我们老的时候就养不了我们了。”这对你来说耳熟么?这种话会对小孩子造成严重的心理负担,他们会无视健康而搏命学习,同时还要处在担忧以后找不到好工作,没办法赡养父母的高压下,这会让他们变成不孝子女。



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