The key to keep love fresh爱情保鲜的法宝

  1. Send a card for no reason–another cliché? Maybe, but everyone likes to receive a nice “I love you” or “I miss you” notes every once in a while.


  2. Listen–this could be the most important one ever, but note that you should listen with empathy and not just hear what they are saying; you should get involved.

  3. Encourage–positive support and being there for one another is also very important; seek their support and give them yours and be generous!

  4. Do it his or her way–sometimes; you need to do things their way just to show how much you love them and respect their feelings.

    5. Know his or her needs–what good is a spouse if he/she does not know the needs of their significant others? This should be your primary concern!

  6. Give gifts–nice small gifts are appreciated every once in a while.

  7. Touch–intimacy between married people is very important and touching is a means of communication that reflects closeness, connection and love; it is your way of keeping the spark alive.

  8. Talk about dreams–dreams of the future that is; if you don‘t share your dreams with your spouse; then who?

  9. Select a song that can be “our song” —— this sounds like a cliché, but it can be nice, don‘t you think?

  10. Laugh together–laughter is medicine. When you share good laughs together; the fun grows in the relationship and you grow closer and stronger every day.

  11. Start each day withI think this one is not that hard; on the contrary; it can be healthy and nice.

  12. Date once a week–May not as often as once a week, let‘s say every other week or that a date can be inside your home and that you don‘t have to go somewhere fancy to have it, you get the idea, right?

  13. Accept differences–No one is perfect. However; healthy arguments are good for the relationship, hence; the most important thing would be learning how to compromise with one another.

  14. Be polite–Please, thank you, you are welcome… these are not only meant for strangers; your own spouse and family should come first and you must always use these phrases inside your home.

  15. Be gentle–a person is supposed to be the closest to his/her spouse, being gentle is crucial to keep them close enough.

  16. Admit when wrong–don‘t be too arrogant to say it.

  17. End the day with a hug–show closeness and again; intimacy.

  18. Cuddle–yes; intimacy is very important and reflects love and deep feelings.

  19. Show respect–showing respect is more important than showing love.


  20. Welcome the other person home–show enthusiasm when they come home and greet them; this means that you are happy because they are home now and that you were waiting for them!

  21. Celebrate birthdays in a big way–this does not mean a big party; just show them you care about their personal occasions.

  22. Forgive–from the heart and not only in words.

  23. Set up a romantic getaway–this sounds like fun every once in a while; no harm in that!

  24. Respond quickly to the other person‘s request–show them that you are doing this because you care for them the most.

  25. Treat each others‘ friends and relatives with courtesy–even if you don‘t like their family and/or friends, you treat them with respect and courtesy for the sake of your spouse; they deserve that much.

  26. Compliment twice a day–everyone likes to hear something nice as a compliment; so give them that when it is due.

  27. Call during the day–but don‘t over do it and be obsessed with calling him/her. Give them their space but also show them that you think of them by a 2-minutes phone call saying “how are you doing?”














  12. 一周约会一次。也不必非得一周一次,也可以两周一次。而且约会的地点可以在家中,不必非去什么特别的地方。你是不是明白了?有心就好。











  23. 策划一次浪漫出游——时不时搞一次,其乐无穷,完全没有副作用!

  24. 快速响应对方的需求——这样做就是为了显示你有多么在意对方。



  27. 打通电话——不要总是给对方打电话。给他们一些空间的同时,打个简短的问候电话,让他们了解你的惦念。


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